I Wrote About the Six Human Needs. Now I’m Wondering If They’re Needs at All.

Years ago, I wrote about the Six Human Needs as profound drivers of human behaviour. I recently came across that post again and wondered: Are they actually needs? What happens when we call something a need, and does feeling that something is missing prove that it is? I don’t have a new answer. I have a better question. Read More

P = U – T (The Formula They Don’t Teach You in School)

What if your best performance isn’t about doing more, but thinking less? In this post we explore the playful but powerful formula P = U – T (Performance = Potential minus Thought/Interference), inspired by Timothy Gallwey and the idea that the space between doing and thinking is where our true flow lives. We’ll laugh a little at our over-thinking selves, tip our hats to distractions, and discover how to make more happen by thinking a little less. Read More

Do You Need a Change of Circumstances — or a Change of Mind?

When circumstances become uncertain, changing something can feel urgent. But are we responding to what is actually happening, or to the story we’ve created around it? Sometimes the wisest move is to change our circumstances. Sometimes it’s seeing that we were asking those circumstances to change how we feel. Read More

Stop Saving Yourself for Something Better (revisited)

What if your life isn’t waiting to begin? Explore the hidden assumption that keeps us postponing happiness and discover why you don’t have to wait to get on living. Read More

Life Doesn’t Wait for Your Understanding

What if understanding isn’t the prerequisite for living? Perhaps wisdom isn’t something we achieve, but something life quietly reveals as we take the next step. Read More