White Knuckles, Wisdom, and the Feel of the Road

What if “white-knuckling” isn’t about fear at all, but about wisdom at work? A simple story from a narrow logging road opens a deeper understanding of presence, fear, and the quiet intelligence that guides us when thinking settles and attention stays on the road ahead. Read More

What If Nothing Is Missing?

Every New Year asks who you want to become.
This post asks something quieter and far more disruptive.

What if nothing is missing?

A gentle exploration of why real change does not begin with fixing yourself, but with seeing what has always been intact. Read More

Why Most New Year’s Resolutions Fail and How to Fix Them

Every January, millions of people make New Year’s resolutions hoping this year will finally be different. Most focus on health, money, or happiness—and most quietly fade by February. From a principles-based, inside-out perspective, lasting change doesn’t come from willpower or discipline. It comes from clarity. This post explores why resolutions fail and how understanding how experience is created can lead to changes that naturally stick. Read More

Why Christmas Wishes Often Don’t Come True

Every December we make wishes. For peace, connection, and a holiday that finally feels right. But Christmas wishes rarely arrive the way we imagine. Sometimes they come true not because life changes, but because our thinking settles enough to notice what’s already here. Read More

True Being – false self

Richard Rohr makes a subtle but powerful distinction in The Immortal Diamond: when we live from our True Self, action doesn’t disappear, it clarifies. This post explores how true Being naturally gives rise to effective Doing, without strain, striving, or spiritual theatrics. Read More