by Rick Ruppenthal

Why Most New Year’s Resolutions Fail and How to Fix Them

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Every January, millions of people make New Year’s resolutions hoping this year will finally be different. Most focus on health, money, or happiness—and most quietly fade by February. From a principles-based, inside-out perspective, lasting change doesn’t come from willpower or discipline. It comes from clarity. This post explores why resolutions fail and how understanding how experience is created can lead to changes that naturally stick. Read More

by Rick Ruppenthal

Understanding the Ladder of Inference in Law

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Lawyers in Suits climb the Ladder of Inference on purpose — it’s literally their job. But in real life, we climb it accidentally, and that’s where the trouble begins. This short follow-up explores why legal reasoning works in courtrooms but creates chaos in personal relationships, and how seeing the ladder helps us make clearer, wiser choices. Read More

by Rick Ruppenthal

The Ladder of Inference Creates Bad Judgements and Suits Proves It Every Episode

Cinematic image of a wooden ladder fading into clouds of thought, set in a soft office–courtroom environment reminiscent of Suits, symbolizing how assumptions create faulty conclusions

We’ve been binge-watching Suits, and it turns out the show is a masterclass in spotting the Ladder of Inference. Harvey, Louis, Mike, Donna, Gretchen — each gives us a front-row seat to how quickly we can jump to conclusions and act on assumptions. This blog explores the ladder, why we all climb it, and how to step off it with more clarity and insight. Read More

by Rick Ruppenthal

Two Rooms

A person standing in a hallway with two open doors, one leading to a dark, dramatic courtroom filled with shadows, the other to a bright, creative classroom filled with warm light, books, sketches, and open space. The person is calm, contemplative, hand lightly touching the doorway of the brighter room. Soft, cinematic lighting, gentle focus, inspirational atmosphere, subtle modern style

We often move through life as if we are stuck in a courtroom, judging ourselves and the world. Yet there is a classroom inside us too, a place for curiosity, creativity, and fresh ideas. The difference between struggle and possibility is simply noticing which room we are in. This post explores how easily we can step out of judgment and into learning. Read More

by Rick Ruppenthal

If there was One Wish

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A heartfelt holiday reflection on our shared humanity and the wish that lies beneath it all. When the noise of our thinking settles, we remember our innate kindness, strength, and wholeness. Four powerful videos help illuminate the deeper truth of who we are beneath the thought storm. Read More