by Rick Ruppenthal

Why Most New Year’s Resolutions Fail and How to Fix Them

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Every January, millions of people make New Year’s resolutions hoping this year will finally be different. Most focus on health, money, or happiness—and most quietly fade by February. From a principles-based, inside-out perspective, lasting change doesn’t come from willpower or discipline. It comes from clarity. This post explores why resolutions fail and how understanding how experience is created can lead to changes that naturally stick. Read More

by Rick Ruppenthal

True Being – false self

Richard Rohr makes a subtle but powerful distinction in The Immortal Diamond: when we live from our True Self, action doesn’t disappear, it clarifies. This post explores how true Being naturally gives rise to effective Doing, without strain, striving, or spiritual theatrics. Read More

by Rick Ruppenthal

How Hallmark Movies Reveal Insight Psychology

Hallmark Christmas movies may be predictable, but they’re accidentally brilliant teachers. This playful reflection explores how the Ladder of Inference quietly drives misunderstandings in holiday romance classics and in our own lives. A lighthearted reminder that clarity changes everything, often without effort. Read More

by Rick Ruppenthal

Understanding the Ladder of Inference in Law

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Lawyers in Suits climb the Ladder of Inference on purpose — it’s literally their job. But in real life, we climb it accidentally, and that’s where the trouble begins. This short follow-up explores why legal reasoning works in courtrooms but creates chaos in personal relationships, and how seeing the ladder helps us make clearer, wiser choices. Read More

by Rick Ruppenthal

The Ladder of Inference Creates Bad Judgements and Suits Proves It Every Episode

Cinematic image of a wooden ladder fading into clouds of thought, set in a soft office–courtroom environment reminiscent of Suits, symbolizing how assumptions create faulty conclusions

We’ve been binge-watching Suits, and it turns out the show is a masterclass in spotting the Ladder of Inference. Harvey, Louis, Mike, Donna, Gretchen — each gives us a front-row seat to how quickly we can jump to conclusions and act on assumptions. This blog explores the ladder, why we all climb it, and how to step off it with more clarity and insight. Read More