Is love really the answer to everything, as Syd Banks suggested? And if so, what kind of love are we talking about? This reflection explores unconditional love not as sentiment or behavior, but as the natural state that emerges when the mind quiets, revealing clarity, wisdom, and intelligent action in everyday life. Read More
We set goals every year and wonder why so many quietly fall apart. What if the issue isn’t discipline or motivation, but intention? Werner Erhard’s provocative idea that “we always get what we intend” offers a surprising lens on why our results make perfect sense. This reflection explores the difference between goals and intentions, and how greater clarity—not effort—can quietly change everything. Read More
Hallmark Christmas movies may be predictable, but they’re accidentally brilliant teachers. This playful reflection explores how the Ladder of Inference quietly drives misunderstandings in holiday romance classics and in our own lives. A lighthearted reminder that clarity changes everything, often without effort. Read More
Lawyers in Suits climb the Ladder of Inference on purpose — it’s literally their job. But in real life, we climb it accidentally, and that’s where the trouble begins. This short follow-up explores why legal reasoning works in courtrooms but creates chaos in personal relationships, and how seeing the ladder helps us make clearer, wiser choices. Read More
The holiday hunt for the “perfect gift” often turns us into Olympic-level overthinkers. But clarity, not stress, is what helps us choose meaningful gifts. When the mind settles, like a snowglobe after a shake, shopping becomes less of a burden and more of an adventure. Read More
Rick Ruppenthal | COACHING