Every December we make wishes. For peace, connection, and a holiday that finally feels right. But Christmas wishes rarely arrive the way we imagine. Sometimes they come true not because life changes, but because our thinking settles enough to notice what’s already here. Read More
Richard Rohr makes a subtle but powerful distinction in The Immortal Diamond: when we live from our True Self, action doesn’t disappear, it clarifies. This post explores how true Being naturally gives rise to effective Doing, without strain, striving, or spiritual theatrics. Read More
Hallmark Christmas movies may be predictable, but they’re accidentally brilliant teachers. This playful reflection explores how the Ladder of Inference quietly drives misunderstandings in holiday romance classics and in our own lives. A lighthearted reminder that clarity changes everything, often without effort. Read More
Lawyers in Suits climb the Ladder of Inference on purpose — it’s literally their job. But in real life, we climb it accidentally, and that’s where the trouble begins. This short follow-up explores why legal reasoning works in courtrooms but creates chaos in personal relationships, and how seeing the ladder helps us make clearer, wiser choices. Read More
We’ve been binge-watching Suits, and it turns out the show is a masterclass in spotting the Ladder of Inference. Harvey, Louis, Mike, Donna, Gretchen — each gives us a front-row seat to how quickly we can jump to conclusions and act on assumptions. This blog explores the ladder, why we all climb it, and how to step off it with more clarity and insight. Read More
Rick Ruppenthal | COACHING